TAKE BACK YOUR LIFE.
We are caused to wander for the meantime in finding our own path to success because we need some refining and sharpening, polishing and readying. So that when you finally get near to your destination, you are filled and enriched.
The most important thing for you to have is a strong spirit and will to get up each time you get yourself in a detour; A clear vision of your success to focus all your mind to despite the vagueness of your temporary mess.
And then just like a child who stumbles, one day you will get to stand tall on your game and no thing can be able to destroy your spirit any more..